When your child is struggling, this can be heartbreaking. You may not understand exactly how to help him or her. You may not understand why your child is struggling so much. The most important thing you should remember is to be empathetic. A few tips to follow include: Treat your child the way he or she needs to be treated. Avoid making assumptions. Ask for clarification instead. Leave your frustrations at the door and avoid passing judgment. Begin every statement with “I” in